i absolutely cannot stand that everyone has a brother-in-law/ friend/ cousin that is a web person or IT guy.... they always have to put their 2 cents in... "oh well bob my brother-in-law says if you don't do it this way then you obviously don't know what you are doing..." well if bob is so f'ing smart about computer programming then why aren't you paying him to do it for you. don't solicit my professional advice or services if you plan to have your super-smart programming genius of a brother-in-law or whatever under-mine me... by the way if bob had a clue he would know that i am doing it the right way.